18 Sep Are you holding on to tight? Harm or Help?
Sometimes, there’s more harm than good done when you hold on to long.
Just because someone we love may have made wrong decisions, or choices we didn’t agree with… By no means…Should we consistently define them as such, or weak or fragile.
When a person goes, and grows through the bad choices or mistakes…they, more than anyone else recognize the cost of those bad choices and mistakes…
Chances are they learned more than you will every realize.
SO the fact that you feel like you have to manipulate or control or hold on to tightly… So they don’t make the bad choices again..
This is actually a hindrance to their growth, to their self confidence, and to their ability to sustain a “normal” productive life for themselves.
STOP choking the life outta them!!! Stop holding them back!!!
Let loose and watch them thrive? You are a safety net, not a noose!!!
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